Well by looking at all the responses YOU are not alone.
Four months ago my husband of 10 years came home and let me know he was cheating on me, and he was moving out (and in with her). Sure I had a broken heart, but girl just remember this... YOU are WORTH so much more than that. YOU deserve to be happy, pampered and taken care of. YOU never are deserving of name calling and to be treated like #2.
Just remember, YOU are woman, YOU are strong. I promise, I PROMISE, it does get easier. I remember talking to my girlfriends after it happened, just wishing that I could fast forward my life. It's been 4 months, and GIRL life is good.
You WILL make it through this. I'm almost 34, and starting over. Don't give up on love. Don't give up on hope, he is ONE guy in a HUGE pond. They deserve each other. AT the age of 23, you have so, so, so much to look forward to.
Please know that you are in my thoughts......
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