- Joined
- Feb 17, 2004
- Messages
- 1,992
- Reaction score
- 1
Originally Posted by KittySkyfish When I was single, I never had an interest in one-night stands. Primarily because I am not attracted to looks alone. It takes a bright guy to turn my head and keep me interested.
But, I will admit to having some "booty call" guys that I would see while I was in between relationships. A BC guy has to be someone that can be my friend, turn me on and make me laugh, and who is not interested in a relationship with me. All my BC guys were once guys that I dated and we both decided this is the best situation for us.
I can tell you that going by looks alone is a BIG mistake. Yep. That's when I started being attracted to guys who were not pretty and discovered a whole new world. Pretty is as pretty does. There's nothing like dating an "intellectually challenged" man to bring that point forward.Sex is not everything either. If he's not interesting or informed, he's vacuous. I liken the type to a dog toy. It's fun to play with for a few hours and can make funny squeaking noises and then it just lays there without opinion or merit. Boring and disappointing.
But, I will admit to having some "booty call" guys that I would see while I was in between relationships. A BC guy has to be someone that can be my friend, turn me on and make me laugh, and who is not interested in a relationship with me. All my BC guys were once guys that I dated and we both decided this is the best situation for us.
I can tell you that going by looks alone is a BIG mistake. Yep. That's when I started being attracted to guys who were not pretty and discovered a whole new world. Pretty is as pretty does. There's nothing like dating an "intellectually challenged" man to bring that point forward.Sex is not everything either. If he's not interesting or informed, he's vacuous. I liken the type to a dog toy. It's fun to play with for a few hours and can make funny squeaking noises and then it just lays there without opinion or merit. Boring and disappointing.